Studies have shown a direct correlation between financial fitness
and overall health. Think about it. When you worry about how you’re going to
pay the bills, when you feel guilty about how much you’ve spent, how you're buried in debt, your physical well-being may be affected.
Financial stress can cause depression or anxiety. It can elevate
your blood pressure, even give you ulcers. You might have trouble sleeping.
Whether it manifests
itself in junk food binges or whether your stomach is too
nervous to digest a proper meal, your body may be deprived of the nutrition it
needs to maintain optimal performance.
Obsessing about money can lead to drug or alcohol abuse. Which in
turn can create more problems in your life, both physical and financial.
Your relationships may suffer. At a well-meaning spouse’s mention of
the overdue bills, or a child’s need for school supplies, you may lash out
without thinking, consequently hurting people you love. Obsession over money
can cause you to miss those special moments with family and friends, like
watching a child take a first step or celebrating someone’s accomplishment.
Important moments that shouldn’t cost anything.
So how do you avoid feeling stressed if your finances are indeed
out of control?
Think of the serenity prayer: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot
change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the
difference.”
Have the courage to stop the
bleeding. Now. Don’t wait until after the holidays. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. Write down everything
coming in and everything going out, and then prepare a budget. Cut out
unnecessary expenditures like subscriptions to magazines you don’t read,
membership in clubs you don’t frequent, premium cable channels you don’t watch,
etc. Maybe you can get by a little longer between haircuts, manicures,
professional cleanings. Make a list when you go shopping—on a full stomach—and
resist the impulse to splurge on items you don’t need. Complete transformation
won’t happen overnight, but if you make small, steady, permanent lifestyle changes
to help you live within your means, you will soon see progress.
Accept that there will always be
someone who lives in a bigger house, drives a newer car, gives better presents,
wears nicer clothes than you. Stop trying to keep up with people who have more
money than you do. Buy only what you can afford, and learn to be happy with
what you have. If you’re reading this, undoubtedly, there are others who have a
lot less.
What tips do you have for reducing
financial stress? I'd love to hear your comments.
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